I liked the advice on JWfacts, you cannot go too fast. You have already given her many things to think about, give her time.
Be nice to her, develop a different relationship, one built on interests other than JW things. Gardening? Music? Art? Go places, take classes together, become a different person... one she looks forward to seeing.
As far as her "kicking you out of the house"... I don't think she can without something legal ordering you to. So, if you don't move out "just because she tells you to" you will still have a place to live. That will make it easier for you if you decide to make adjustments.
Personally, I think the things she has written down are going to sink in... let her take her time in investigating...
The nicer you are, the less she has to complain about, right?
Good luck, let us know how it goes.....